What is a narcissist? By definition, a narcissist is a person who is self-involved, vain and selfish. He or she has a high self-esteem (real or fake) and is concerned only about his interests. You know you’re with a narcissist when EVERYTHING is about them. Even if you may have a valid concern, they will somehow turn around the topic / argument to be about them, how it’s YOUR mistake. Sound like someone you know? Yes, then you’re with a narcissist. Here are a few more tips to confirm that you are in a relationship with a selfish, self-centered person:
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- They will Rage:
The way a narcissist manipulates and intimidates you is by anger. You may be discussing your relationship or anything which needs a little adjustment, and he or she will just be screaming the first chance they get. They try to gain the upper hand (in their mind) by raging at you. This gets them the advantage that you will be intimidated subconsciously and rarely bring up something for discussion. They expect you to NOT have any opinions at all!
2. They always come first:
They will never make plans according to your schedule. They will keep you hanging all day and confirm plans at the last moment. They expect you to be always at their beck and call. Inconsideration is one of the hallmarks of a narcissist.Hergossip